[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.terranet.cz\/jde-udrzet-vztah-s-mamankem\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.terranet.cz\/jde-udrzet-vztah-s-mamankem\/","headline":"Jde udr\u017eet vztah s mam\u00e1nkem?","name":"Jde udr\u017eet vztah s mam\u00e1nkem?","description":"Zpo\u010d\u00e1tku se v\u00e1m l\u00edb\u00ed, \u017ee mu\u017e mluv\u00ed hezky o sv\u00e9 mamince, i kdy\u017e se v\u00e1m mo\u017en\u00e1 zd\u00e1, \u017ee slovo matka, […]","datePublished":"2018-06-01","dateModified":"2023-04-30","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.terranet.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.terranet.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/087c2e57f451bc02fa8017914855d7c40cf6c7d5dc1637b868e007adc26322d1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/087c2e57f451bc02fa8017914855d7c40cf6c7d5dc1637b868e007adc26322d1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"terranet.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.terranet.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a320434_w1916_t1531729420.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.terranet.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a320434_w1916_t1531729420.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.terranet.cz\/jde-udrzet-vztah-s-mamankem\/","wordCount":700,"articleBody":" Zpo\u010d\u00e1tku se v\u00e1m l\u00edb\u00ed, \u017ee mu\u017e mluv\u00ed hezky o sv\u00e9 mamince, i kdy\u017e se v\u00e1m mo\u017en\u00e1 zd\u00e1, \u017ee slovo matka, zn\u00ed v jeho v\u011bt\u00e1ch podivn\u011b. A\u017e pozd\u011bji odhal\u00edte, \u017ee si s\u00e1m uv\u011bdomuje, jak na jej\u00ed n\u00e1zory d\u00e1 a proto aspo\u0148 zam\u011b\u0148uje l\u00e1skypln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed slovo \u201edrsn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm\u201c. M\u00e1te radost, \u017ee od maturity do te\u010f (vezm\u011bme v\u011bk 26 let), \u017eije od n\u00ed 100 kilometr\u016f. I vysokou \u0161kolu m\u011bl dost daleko na to, \u017ee mohl jezdit dom\u016f jednou za m\u011bs\u00edc. Tud\u00ed\u017e je samostatn\u00fd. Mysl\u00edte si to. M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee kdy\u017e si volaj\u00ed, sd\u011bluj\u00ed si jen novinky a jeho ob\u010dasn\u00e1 n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva, st\u0159\u00eddaj\u00edc\u00ed se s n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvou rodi\u010d\u016f, nen\u00ed nic tak neobvykl\u00e9ho. Ale ve chv\u00edli, kdy se rozhodl v\u00e1s p\u0159edstavit, se od n\u011bj dozv\u00edte, \u017ee matce se obvykle jeho partnerky nel\u00edb\u00ed a on na jej\u00ed \u201e\u010duch\u201c d\u00e1. Teprve te\u010f za\u010dnete nad jejich vztahem p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let. M\u00e1te strach ze setk\u00e1n\u00ed. Opr\u00e1vn\u011bn\u00fd. U\u017e ve chv\u00edli, kdy vch\u00e1z\u00edte do dve\u0159\u00ed, vid\u00edte, jak se j\u00ed nesouhlasn\u011b st\u00e1hl obli\u010dej, v o\u010d\u00edch j\u00ed probleskl odpor a vrt\u00ed hlavou. Dobu, kterou u nich str\u00e1v\u00edte, vn\u00edm\u00e1te jako utrpen\u00ed, kdy neust\u00e1le poslouch\u00e1te, jak je v\u00e1\u0161 vyvolen\u00fd hodn\u00fd syn, kter\u00fd V\u017dDY d\u00e1 na n\u00e1zory sv\u00e9 m\u00e1my, proto\u017ee ona to s n\u00edm mysl\u00ed dob\u0159e a v\u00ed, co je pro n\u011bj nejlep\u0161\u00ed. Obr\u00e1t\u00edte se na n\u011bj a on s omluvn\u00fdm \u00fasm\u011bvem p\u0159itak\u00e1v\u00e1. V tu chv\u00edli si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te, jestli  a m\u00e1te sto chut\u00ed se zvednout a ut\u00e9ct. Mus\u00edte se za\u010d\u00edt hodn\u011b sna\u017eit, aby vztah vydr\u017eel. Rozz\u00e1\u0159\u00edte se, kdy\u017e v\u00e1s po\u017e\u00e1d\u00e1 o ruku. Ale ve chv\u00edli, kdy v\u00e1s p\u0159ejde euforie, si za\u010dnete \u0159\u00edkat, co na to ona. Jestli bude proti, prosad\u00ed si on svou? V\u00e1\u0161 svatebn\u00ed den nesm\u00ed nic naru\u0161it. V\u0161e je dokonal\u00e9. A\u017e do chv\u00edle, kdy se od sv\u00e9 vykulen\u00e9 maminky dozv\u00edte, \u017ee va\u0161e budouc\u00ed tch\u00fdn\u011b \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee v\u00e1s do p\u011bti let rozvede. Te\u010f u\u017e v\u00edte, \u017ee si ho mus\u00edte p\u0159ipoutat je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edc. Ne d\u00edt\u011btem, to je nesmysl, ale svou dokonalou p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed o jeho pohodl\u00ed, ale tak\u00e9 o svou osobu, proto\u017ee on mus\u00ed b\u00e1snit o v\u00e1s a ne o matce. \u017divot s n\u00edm nem\u00e1te lehk\u00fd. N\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho rodi\u010d\u016f, jsou n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9. Tch\u00fdn\u011b v\u00e1s s fale\u0161n\u00fdm \u00fasm\u011bvem p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010duje, \u017ee j\u00ed m\u00e1te poka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00e1vat na vypr\u00e1n\u00ed povle\u010den\u00ed i de\u010dky, proto\u017ee tak dob\u0159e jako ona to neud\u011bl\u00e1te a va\u0161e polovi\u010dka k\u00fdve a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee v\u00e1m chce jen pomoct. N\u00e1sledn\u00e9 odm\u00edtnut\u00ed ji uraz\u00ed, a i kdy\u017e p\u0159ijeli zdaleka, po hodin\u011b nasupen\u00fdch obli\u010dej\u016f, odj\u00ed\u017ed\u011bj\u00ed. Vysv\u011btlujete, \u017ee svou dom\u00e1cnost si dok\u00e1\u017eete obstarat samy. V \u017eivot\u011b ale nast\u00e1vaj\u00ed situace, kter\u00e9 by ani sc\u00e9n\u00e1rist\u00e9 nevymysleli. Po letech oba ztrat\u00edte pr\u00e1ci a tch\u00fdn\u011b rozhodne, \u017ee byt si koup\u00edte v jejich m\u011bst\u011b, proto\u017ee tam pr\u00e1ci se\u017eenete. N\u00e1sledn\u00e1 slova zabol\u00ed: \u201e J\u00e1 tam koup\u00edm byt a z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tob\u011b, jestli p\u016fjde\u0161 se mnou. Nemus\u00ed\u0161, nenut\u00edm t\u011b, ale m\u00e1ma m\u00e1 pravdu. Znaj\u00ed dost lid\u00ed, ty n\u00e1m pom\u016f\u017eou.\u201c St\u011bhujete se. Bl\u00edzko nich. Jeho matka neust\u00e1le chod\u00ed k v\u00e1m, kritizuje. Poh\u00e1r p\u0159ete\u010de. Zariskujete. Jasn\u00fdm hlasem j\u00ed ur\u010d\u00edte hranice. Uraz\u00ed se a \u010dek\u00e1 zast\u00e1n\u00ed. On se ale KONE\u010cN\u011a zastal v\u00e1s a dal v\u00e1m za pravdu. St\u00e1lo to l\u00e9ta d\u0159iny, ale vyplatilo se. Jestli je jeho matka inteligentn\u00ed, p\u0159ejde ji to a bude se k v\u00e1m chovat, kdy\u017e ne s l\u00e1skou, tak s respektem.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.8\/5 - (5 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jde udr\u017eet vztah s mam\u00e1nkem?","item":"https:\/\/www.terranet.cz\/jde-udrzet-vztah-s-mamankem\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]